What are the SMART relationship goals? I've really been on relationship kick right now about the people you're hanging around with, the people you're talking to, the people you're spending time with and that's family, that's friends, that's coworkers. That's just people in general. So what is a SMART goal and we talk about SMART goals, making them specific, making them measurable, making them actionable, making them relevant, and making them time-based. We can do those things with your relationships and this is what I mean. If I want to make sure that I am staying and connection and staying in contact with my friends, what is something specific I want to do? I want to talk about a specific thing. I want to know how long I'm going to be on the phone, how much time we want to spend together, what we want to accomplish with this conversation and if it's just to have fun, then it's just to have fun.
I know I'm excited about doing a thing with my mom. My mom used to do this bomb, dope, ceramic stuff, all kinds of cool, like ceramic things in the house and so I asked her, did she want to get that started again? And you know what she told me? “No” which really surprised me because I thought she liked it but it's not that she didn't want to do ceramics, she wanted to do she want to do it differently. She said that she wanted to throw clay like on goes where they spin the clay and they make the pot. She said she wanted to get her hands dirty. I thought that was really cool that she had something else she wanted to do for herself and it's cool that that's something that we can do together. I'm really looking at being way more intentional with my time and how I spent time with people and when I tell you, I am not going to lie. I'm excited about being in this whole clay spinning class with my mom because it gives us time together. We're both learning something new that we've never done before. It’s definitely measurable and specific and it's going to be fun and it's going to be dope and we're going to have something to show for our time together so just asking those questions, the goals that you have a relationship, are they smart goals?
